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BY TOMOEH MURAKAMI TSE
STAFF WRITER
August 29, 2004
After the Sept. 11 attacks, Donna Sonkin of the Upper East Side of
Manhattan made a deliberate effort to go out with friends, seeking
comfort in big groups. Although shocked like everyone else, Sonkin, 32,
a Syosset native, was able to cope and returned to work just four days
later. Today is a different story. The recent terror alert targeted a
Manhattan building where her brother works. And with constant news
coverage on security plans for the upcoming Republican National
Convention at Madison Square Garden, the normally collected Sonkin has
been thrown off balance. For the first time, she woke one recent morning
in cold sweat after a nightmare about a terrorist bombing in New York
City. "We were under attack. I was freaking out," said Sonkin,
an actress who manages two boutiques in Manhattan. "I never used to
have anxiety nightmares. ... For the first time, I thought of living
outside of the city."
Recurring symptoms
Some psychologists and mental health officials say such symptoms are not
uncommon at a time of heightened stress for New Yorkers. Earlier this
month, the federal government issued its most pressing and detailed
terror alert yet. Security concerns surround the convention, and there
is uneasiness about possible terrorist attacks during the November
presidential election. Raw emotions will be resurfacing as the
anniversary of Sept. 11 nears. "People who are older ... are very,
very concerned. Young parents are very concerned about their
children," said Peninsula Counseling Center director Herb Ruben,
who added that he has never witnessed such a sense of fear and
helplessness in his 46 years at the Woodmere center. Ruben and officials
at several other counseling centers said patients are showing signs of
increased anxiety, although they have not necessarily seen an uptick in
the number of people seeking help. Lou Gallagher, coordinator of
disaster mental health services for Suffolk County, said doctors across
the country have seen a rise in anxiety among patients whenever a terror
alert is issued, although to a lesser degree with each one. Indeed, many
experts who deal with anxiety said Americans seem to have incorporated
the risks of the post-Sept. 11 world into their lives.
People coping
"I think what you see is that, in general, people have adjusted
rather well, better than expected," said William Sanderson,
a professor of psychology and director of the anxiety and depression
treatment program at Hofstra University. But, Sanderson and others said,
recent reminders of daily threats - from terror alerts to heavily armed
officers on city corners - have fed into the fears of some, particularly
those dealing with stress or who have pre-existing anxiety conditions.
Howard Goldstein of Hewlett said he has become desensitized to the
repeated terror alerts and that the government should only notify first
responders. "I think it unnecessarily scares a lot of people,"
he said. "It doesn't scare me any more because I've become so
skeptical about it. It's the sense of powerlessness that scares people.
Why tell me if I can't do anything about it? I think it's better off
confining it to the people in a position to do something about it."
Safety in numbers
Steven Greenfield, executive director of the Mental Health Association
of Nassau County, said being with friends and family in pleasant
situations and limiting exposure to TV news can help. "We advise
people ... not to keep watching CNN and having the continuous stream of
anxiety-producing stimulus coming at them," he said. "The
reality is there are no terrorist attacks going on now. There is nothing
to be anxious about." Experts say families should also hold family
meetings, establish a list of emergency contact numbers, and assemble a
disaster kit (with flashlight, radio, batteries, water, medicine,
childcare items such as diapers, etc). To help residents regain a sense
of control, Ruben's agency this month hosted a town hall panel at the
Hewlett-Woodmere Public Library. Throughout the two-hour meeting,
authorities from the mental health, emergency management and fire
departments from Nassau County repeatedly reassured the roughly 50
residents who attended that first responders are well-prepared to deal
with disasters. "You hear so much about everything and since we're
in the war, it's scary," said Sonkin's mother, Sheila Drew of
Woodmere, who attended the meeting. "My two children live in
Manhattan. We're also near the airport. You can just put your head in
the sand for so long. This is not going away."
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This article originally appeared at: http://www.newsday.com/mynews/ny-heback3944303aug29,0,7673289.story